That Husband Podcast

What Happens When Men Stop Pretending & Tell The Truth? | Penson Mlotshwa, DJ Sabby & Zweli Dube

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S2] EPISODE 47: THE GROOTMAN'S TABLEIn this episode, we sit down for a real and honest conversation about masculinity, what it means today, how society defines it, and how men actually experience it. Instead of reacting to loud cultural narratives, we slow things down and look at masculinity through the lens of everyday life: responsibility, identity, pressure, leadership, and the quiet questions men rarely get space to ask.We break the conversation into three parts, starting with the mind, how men think, process expectations, deal with internal pressure, and navigate modern culture. From mental resilience to emotional awareness to the silent weight many men carry, we explore what a healthy thought-life looks like for men who want to grow.Then we move to the soul and the body, unpacking purpose, character, spiritual grounding, physical well-being, and how these three areas shape one another. This is not a lecture, just men talking to men, trying to understand what it means to show up fully, faithfully, and intentionally in a world that often misunderstands men. Tune in, reflect, and take what you need for your own journey.Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.comFOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/#masculinity #modernmanhood #husbandpodcast #MenTalkingToMen #mensmentalhealth #healthymasculinity #mindbodysoul #husbandlife #marriagegrowth #mensupportingmen #ManhoodJourney #purposedrivenmen #StrongMenSmartMen #IntentionalLiving #menswellbeing #HusbandsCommunity #FaithfulHusbands #characterbuilding #meninconversation #realmenrealtalk #menofhonor #MasculineIdentity #MalePerspective #CulturalMasculinity #maleperspective

I Risked Everything to Become the Man I’m Meant to Be — And She Had to Trust Me | Mosa Nyamande

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S2] EPISODE 46: YOU CAN LEVEL UPThis episode is about the real journey of becoming men who refuse to settle for comfort when growth is calling. We dive into the moments that break us open, the decisions that reshape our identity, and the brave, often painful process of letting go of the boy so that the man can emerge. If you’ve ever felt stuck, unsure, or overwhelmed by the weight of who you’re trying to become, this conversation will find you exactly where you are.This episode is a portrait of husbandhood in motion, of men wrestling with expectations, confronting old versions of themselves, and learning to lead not from ego but from purpose. Musa takes us into the heart of his story: the crisis that cracked him, the therapy that rebuilt him, the marriage that matured him, and the faith that steadied him when the ground beneath him shifted. Together, we reflect on how husbands can transform passive frustration into intentional influence, how identity gets reshaped in the presence of a strong partner, and how clarity often arrives not in the noise of hustle but in the quiet courage of decisive action.And through it all, we return to the truth that guides this podcast: we are husbands who aren’t where we want to be, but certainly are not where we used to be. Men imperfect, failing forward, committed to knowing better so we can do better, for ourselves, our wives, and the families entrusted to us. Whether you're in a season of growth, a season of confusion, or standing at the crossroads of who you were and who you need to become, this episode will remind you that you are not alone, and that transformation, though costly, is always worth it.#thathusbandpodcast #husbandhood #marriagematters #SouthAfricanMen #BlackHusbands #MasculinityJourney #MenGrowing #failingforward #purposedrivenmen #husbandtalks #realconversations #marriagegrowth #mensupportingmen #husbandlife #fatherhoodjourney #buildingfamilies #emotionalintelligence #visionclarity #purposedrivenliving #leadershipformen #HusbandWisdom #familyfirst #menoffaith #growingtogether #legacybuilding

Do Women Really Want Men To Speak? Most Of Us Learn Manhood From Our Mother's Wounds | Dany Vambili

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S2] EPISODE 45: HEARING A MANIn this episode, we journey into the inner world of husbands who are trying to grow, heal, and show up better than the men who raised them. Danny joins Blaque for a deeply transparent conversation about the complexities of manhood, the weight of provision, and the quiet battles men fight long before anyone sees the cracks. From confronting generational cycles to redefining what it means to be healthy as a husband, this episode invites men to finally hear themselves in someone else’s story.Together they peel back the layers of marriage, identity, faith and pressure, exploring moments where being a husband feels like carrying contradictions. They speak openly about anger that has no name, silence that was taught too early, and the exhausting expectation to be strong everywhere except at home. Their dialogue reaches into father wounds, money wounds, the tension between public respect and private struggle, and the deep need for safe friendships that hold men accountable to the husbands they want to become.This is an episode for every man who has ever felt unseen while trying to lead, every husband who is trying to love from a place he is still learning to understand, and every couple navigating the uncomfortable but necessary work of growing together. Through stories of faith, failure, provision, boundaries and redemption, this conversation reminds us that perfect love does not come from perfect people, but from people willing to heal, willing to learn and willing to stay. This is a space for husbands who are not where they want to be, but are refusing to stay where they used to be.Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/#ThatHusbandPodcast #HusbandsForHusbands #marriagetalk #realmenrealtalk #menhealing #modernmarriage #husbandhood #faithandfamily #blackfathersmatter #mensmentalhealth #marriagewisdom #HealthyHusbands #breakingcycles #generationalhealing #christianmarriage #ManhoodJourney #husbandlife #marriagegrowth #MarriedMenTalk #EmotionalHealthForMen #marriageconversations #husbandsupport #RealMarriageRealTalk #menwholead #MenWhoLove

A Husband’s Wake Up Call: Why Presence Is the Strongest Form of Protection | Tokoloho TK Mokale

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S2] EPISODE 44: REDEFINING PRESENCE
 
In this episode, we sit down for one of our most honest and soul-stirring conversations yet. TK opens up about his journey as a husband and father in a way that feels both familiar and deeply challenging as he reflects on what it means to grow into the kind of man who protects his home not only with provision but also with presence, tenderness, and intention. His story reminds us that marriage matures us, shapes us, and reveals us, and that the small choices we make every day slowly build the foundation our families stand on.As TK recounts the beauty and weight of discovering that he and his wife were expecting twins, we hear a man wrestling with fear, excitement, and a fierce resolve to show up fully for his family. He shares how vulnerability, trust, and honest communication became the pillars that carried him and his wife through loss, new beginnings, and the unpredictable terrain of parenthood. His reflections invite every husband to rethink leadership as something deeper than authority, something rooted in service, emotional steadiness, and spiritual anchoring.This conversation is for every husband who is trying his best to be better than yesterday, every man navigating the tension between who he was raised to be and who his family needs him to become. It is a reminder that growth is possible, that healing is ongoing, and that love becomes real when it is practiced in the everyday rhythms of presence, patience, and partnership. If you are a husband on your own journey of failing forward, learning forward, and loving forward, this episode will meet you right where you are.Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.comFOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/#thathusbandpodcast #marriagematters #faithandmarriage #HusbandTalks #realmenrealtalk #christianmarriage #MenOfFaith #MarriageJourney #menoffaith #marriagepodcast #BlackLove #husbandlife #marriagegoals #FaithfulHusband #christcenteredmarriage #marriagewisdom #MenInMarriage #godlyhusband #loveandleadership #marriageconversations #marriageandfaith #PurposefulMarriage #ModernHusbands #marriagereflections #DoingBetterTogether
 
 

Before the Country Shutdown, Let’s Talk, Man To Man | Blaque Nubon

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[S2] EPISODE 43: THE SHUT DOWN There are moments when a nation’s wounds demand more than words, they demand repentance and resolve. In this episode, I step into one of South Africa’s most urgent conversations, gender-based violence and the purple wave spreading across our country. What may look like a trend on social media is, in truth, a cry for justice, a cry that echoes through every home, every marriage, and every man’s heart. This isn’t about pointing fingers, it’s about asking the harder question, what am I doing to stop it?This isn’t a conversation about marriage, communication, or compatibility, it’s about silence. The kind of silence that shelters abusers and isolates survivors. I share honestly about how good men often turn away, how faith calls us not to retreat but to confront, and how the gospel offers us a way back, not through guilt but through responsibility. Strength, I’ve learned, isn’t about domination, it’s about restraint, gentleness, and the courage to protect.Through this reflection, I’m calling us as men to stand, not as spectators but as mirrors, mentors, and safe spaces. To listen to the cries that heaven hears, to start the healing where it must begin, in the heart of a man. Because when we rise with integrity, women can finally rest, not in peace beneath the ground, but in peace within this nation we’re trying to rebuild together. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.comFOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/#thathusbandpodcast #ShutdownEpisode #MenAgainstGBV #genderbasedviolence #southafrica #PurpleForChange #WomenForChange #MenWhoProtect #faithandjustice #HealingTheNation #HusbandsForChange #RealMenStandUp #endgbv #silenceisviolence #biblicalmanhood #GospelAndCulture #justiceandmercy #menofintegrity #protecther #RighteousMasculinity #RepentanceAndRenewal #MenInConversation #faithinaction #RebuildTheNation #ForTheDaughters

Loving My Wife the Way My Father Loved My Mother Is Not As Easy As I Thought | Tumelo Sox Semenya

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S2] EPISODE 43: THE WEIGHT OF ROLE MODELSIn this deeply reflective conversation, Blaque Nubon sits down with Tumelo, a husband molded by faith, shaped by his father, and stretched by love, to talk about what it really means to become the man your family can lean on. From the illusion of potential to the reality of presence, Tumelo shares the inner wrestle of a husband who grew up with a godly example and now faces the sacred pressure of raising the bar without losing his soul in the process.They talk about the quiet war between provision and presence, about how the drive to build can sometimes rob you of the very home you’re building for. Tumelo opens up about lessons from his father, a man whose apologies were as strong as his convictions, and how that legacy both steadies and challenges him in marriage. This is a story about unlearning what even the “good things” taught us, and realizing that the work of being a husband is not about perfection but repentance.For every man who’s trying to become the kind of husband his son can learn from and his daughter can trust, this episode is a mirror, tender, raw, and real. It’s about learning that potential means nothing until it’s lived out in love, that success means nothing without surrender, and that maybe, just maybe, knowing better is finally starting to look like doing better.Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/
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Facing Infertility, My Secret Brother, And The Fight To Not Become My Father - Gregory Cassim

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S2] EPISODE 42: WHEN FAITH IS TESTEDMarriage will test every part of a man, not to break him, but to reveal what’s real. In this episode of That Husband Podcast, Blaque sits down with Gregory Cassim for a raw, redemptive, and deeply personal conversation about fatherhood, faith, and the long road from brokenness to covenant.
From infertility and loss to the miracle of fatherhood, from growing up in the hood to leading a family and a church, Greg opens up about the unseen battles that shape a man’s character. They talk about what it means to be a covenant leader - a husband who protects, nourishes, and provides even when life feels like it’s falling apart.This is not a conversation about perfection; it’s about presence. It’s about husbands who are learning to unlearn, fathers who are choosing to show up, and men who are breaking the cycles they were born into. It’s about grace, redemption, and the kind of love that doesn’t quit when it hurts.So if you’ve ever wrestled with waiting, if you’ve ever wondered where God is in the silence, or if you’ve simply longed to be a better man, this one’s for you. Pull up a chair, lean in, and listen as Blaque and Gregory talk man to man about covenant, character, and what it truly means to be That Husband.Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.comFOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/#ThatHusbandPodcast #MarriageAndFaith #CovenantLove #FatherhoodJourney #FaithfulMen #MarriageIsCovenant #BreakingCycles #MenWhoPray #RedemptionStory #LoveThatStays #ChristianMarriage #Husbandhood #FaithAndFamily #MenOfFaith #RealConversations #MarriagePodcast #FaithInTheWaiting #FatherhoodUnfiltered #FromBrokennessToCovenant #MarriageThatHeals

When One Spouse Wins & The Other Feels Stuck: Friendship, Mother Wounds & Success | Luxolo Kentane

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[S2] EPISODE 41: INTENTIONAL BUILDING BLOCKS
Marriage isn’t for the fainthearted, it’s for men who are willing to die to self so that love can live. In this episode of That Husband Podcast, Blaque sits down with Luxolo Kentane for a brutally honest and beautifully redemptive conversation about what it truly means to lead, love, and live faithfully in marriage. From the quiet sacrifices to the loud laughter, from words that heal to wounds that teach, this one goes deep into the heart of husbandhood.They talk about presence over performance, choosing love over ego, and the sacred weight of being seen and affirmed by the one person who knows your flaws best. These aren’t men who have it all figured out, they’re husbands learning, failing, repenting, and rebuilding daily. What you’ll hear here isn’t theory, it’s testimony, it’s the language of men being transformed by love, one small death at a time.So whether you’re newly married, wrestling through the tension, or just longing to be a better man, this episode will remind you why marriage is both the hardest and holiest journey you’ll ever take. Pull up a chair, lean in, and listen as Blaque and Luxolo Kentane talk, man to man, about what it means to be That Husband.
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New Baby, Unmarried, Unemployed & Evicted. Face To Face With The Man I've Become | Tebogo Maribe

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources[S2] EPISODE 40: COMMITMENTIn this week's episode, we sit down with Tebogo Maribe, a husband, father, and man who has walked through seasons of loss, rebuilding, and redemption. From the sting of unemployment to the tension of wanting to provide but being unable to, Tebza opens up about the realities many husbands face but rarely voice. His story isn’t just about surviving hard times, it’s about choosing faith, humility, and responsibility even when life humbles you.As we dive into his journey, we explore what commitment really means when it’s no longer poetic but practical, when it’s waking up each day to try again for the sake of your wife and child. Tebogo's reflections on fatherhood, accountability, and love reveal a man learning to live out what he believes, one small decision at a time. It’s raw, real, and redemptive, the kind of honesty that calls men back to their purpose and their people.For every husband who’s ever asked, “What do I do when I’ve tried everything?”, this conversation is both a mirror and a map. A mirror to show where you are, in between failure and faith, and a map pointing toward the kind of man you still can become.Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.comFOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/#thathusbandpodcast #HusbandsForHusbands #marriagematters #realmenrealtalk #faithandfamily #modernmarriage #menoffaith #marriagepodcast #husbandlife #fatherhoodjourney #BlackLove #christianmarriage #MarriageInRealLife #FaithfulMen #godlyhusband #MenTalkingMarriage #ManhoodAndFaith #loveandcommitment #marriagereflections #MenBeingMen #marriagestories #marriagegrowth #purposedrivenman #marriageandfaith #ThatHusbandCommunity

I Paid Lobola With My First Pay Cheque, Got Married, Then Buried My Sister a Week Later | Papi Luu

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S2] EPISODE 39: MARRIAGE REALITIESIn this episode of That Husband Podcast, Blaque Nubon sits down with husband, father, and community builder Papi Luu, a man whose story is as real as it is inspiring. From humble beginnings on a sleeper couch to leading an organization that’s transforming lives, Papi’s journey is a reminder that manhood is not about perfection but about progress, purpose, and perseverance. He opens up about love, leadership, and legacy, and what it really means to carry the weight of being a husband in today’s world.Together, they explore the quiet strength that sustains a marriage through hardship, from financial struggle to personal loss, from the discipline of staying when it’s easier to run, to the courage of healing when pride says “stay silent.” Papi’s honesty about his own battles, and his growth through therapy, mentorship, and faith, challenges every husband listening to do better, not just for their wives, but for themselves.This is not just a conversation about marriage, it’s about becoming the kind of man your wife, your children, and your community can depend on. So grab your coffee, lean in, and join the brotherhood of men learning to love with intention, lead with humility, and build with vision.
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